Saturday, June 14, 2008

Eight Days Ago

I had wanted a grand birthday celebration when I turned 45. Five more years to the big five zero. Maybe do the Macarena and dance till the cows come home. I refuse to grow old or rather, one year older.

But what you want is not necessarily what you will get. My birthday slipped in quietly on the morning of the 6th and left equally incognito 24 hours later. Well, almost. A handful of birthday messages came in through SMS and Facebook. There were no bundles of presents to open and it passed just like any other day. As I had taken leave from work for my birthday, my colleague had presented me with a lovely gift pack from Crabtree & Evelyn a few days earlier and THAT had already been opened before the actual day. I couldn't wait! Of course, the gift delighted me to bits and helped to soothe the worries of an upcoming appointment with my gynae. (which I may write about later).

Papa Bkworm didn't let the day go by without a touch of pomp and fanfare so he dropped a hint with the servers at Italiannies where we had my birthday dinner and that brought a group of servers to our table just before dessert was served. They sang. With tambourines and gusto, they make it known that Bkworm was celebrating her birthday and I even got to blow a candle which sat on top of a slice of bread and butter pudding, compliments of the restaurant. Awww.....the Filipino server and leader of the pack is so cute! *feels like a teenager all over again*

I felt the heat rise to my face as they sang on top of their voices. Make no mistake. It was not a case of the hot flushes but really, Bkworm was blushing! That, sort of made up for the lack of a real birthday cake this year, though no fault of anyone since I had specifically requested that none should be bought as the last one we got for Little Bkworm's birthday took up a lot of fridge space when nobody took more than a slice each from the 1kg cake.


The next evening, as we were standing outside GSC waiting for the Prince Caspian movie to start, Papa Bkworm handed me a plastic bag. Inside was this - a hardcover volume of Sex And The City : The Movie.


It was a lovely surprise because I didn't even know that this book was already available in the bookstores. I've watched the entire six seasons of SATC and I am really looking forward to watch the movie, though not necessarily at the cinema, if you know what I mean. Will Carrie really marry Mr. Big in the end? And can Smith Jerrod finally tame Samantha Jones and make her a one man woman at last? Eeee.....I can't wait.

God willing, if I get to my fiftieth year, I shall have that grand celebration with a grandkid in tow, huh?? *laughs out loud*

8 thots:

JoMel said...

My belated wish for your 45th birthday, Bkworm: I wish that your heart's greatest desire will be realised before your 50th!! :) :) :)

bp said...

It was your special day, and I'm glad you had some warm, fuzzing feelings and know you're loved, and thought of by all who love and care for you! Me included! =)

May the new year (one year older, one year wiser, yes!!!) bring blessings over and above what you imagine, and great health for you and yours, too!

stay-at-home mum said...

belated birthday greetings!! Wishing you good health and happiness, and may your wishes come true!!

Looks like we are in the same age-group!!

Bkworm said...

Jomel,
Thanks for your wishes. :) Yes, a grand celebration for my birthday but the grandkid is optional ;) The vain part of me may not be able to handle being a grandma yet.

BP,
I really like the part about having great health....thanks for your wonderful and heartfelt wishes. :)

SAHM,
Three cheers for the 40s Club! Thanks for your birthday greetings :D

GarGies said...

Belated happy birthday! Don't worry about the numbers, it's just numbers. The point is how great life is. Have fun!

Oh, I love SATC a lot too. Is the movie good? How thoughtful your hubby is.

mama bok said...

Happy belated birthday.. Bkworm..! sorry i'm late.. but as you can see .. i've had been busy of late with my blood transfusion .. so not really in the right frame of mind for 1.5 weeks. I hope you had a good one.. and many more to come. :) Happy birthday again..!

fishtail said...

Belated happy birthday! And Papa Bkworm got the choir to sing for you at the restaurant? How sweet!

Bkworm said...

Gargies,
I love the SATC series. Finished all six seasons of them. Now waiting for the movie but doubt will watch it at the cinemas. Bet you the show would be quite butchered by the time the scissors is finished with them. Sigh!

MamaBok,
I totally understand and though I didn't comment at your blog, you are in my prayers. Thanks for your wishes. :)

Fishtail,
Malu-lah but it was quite fun while it lasted all of five minutes. :)