Comments on Imagination Is The Key To Freedom: It's time to go job hunting, isn't it?

I used to think I was the only one mounting pressu...

2008-04-22T07:39:00.000+08:00

I used to think I was the only one mounting pressure on myself until recently mom and dad decided to hang a family portrait on top of my bed's headboard (is this what you call it?). Anyway with or without family pressure, I'm very anxious to rise fast and earn my first millions... But having been slaving for about a year now, I realized it's harder than it seems. I'm still the most junior in my department even after 1 year... It's terrible. Nobody else is younger than me here,... and my superiors still treat me like a new staff. I hate that!

Just let him do what he wants. he needs the passio...

2008-04-06T14:27:00.000+08:00

Just let him do what he wants. he needs the passion to sustain him in the working world. But of course you can help him get a foot thru the door for some interviews or with his cv or helping him scan the classifieds. BUT only if he wants your help.
Us poor mums. always anxious to help. But our help not always wanted!!

As a mum.. i think i would be this way too.. but i...

2008-04-06T03:10:00.000+08:00

As a mum.. i think i would be this way too.. but i too would consciously try and not meddle too much.. unless of course.. chloe becomes a good for nothing bum.. kekkekee!!

i agree with papa bkworm.. let him find his way......

2008-04-06T00:19:00.000+08:00

i agree with papa bkworm.. let him find his way... meanwhile, do not let money be so readily available to him. Just let him know that you are there to help if he needs tips on job search and interviews and such. But don't do the work for him. Being a "man", he has to build his character, to succeed in life, and you know, care for his family. Must have that "backbone" guat hei (is that what it is in Cantonese?)

My bro is a total bum, 31 with 2 kids, totally dependent on my mum. But she allows him.