tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8334700.post8206381466722866867..comments2008-06-23T15:39:39.085+08:00Bkwormhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16230980046271675961de_bookworm@yahoo.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8334700.post-76158859136920275272008-06-23T15:38:00.000+08:002008-06-23T15:38:00.000+08:00Jomel,<BR/>Yes, you should just enjoy them in all their innocence now. :)<BR/><BR/>BP,<BR/>It's really tough especially when I see so many changes over the years and suddenly I don't seem to know my son anymore. The girl is still ok (for now) but then I think we are a lot closer than I was with my son.<BR/><BR/>SAHM,<BR/>A support group is a great idea! Talking about does help put things into perspective sometimes.<BR/><BR/>Hyelbaine,<BR/>Hardships will help to sharpen one's character but it's hard watching them go through it, if u know what I mean. :(<BR/><BR/>MamaBok,<BR/>I think in one way or another, we will emulate our mothers....even in things that we didn't like about when we were younger but as long as we aware of it, we can try to make it less hard on the kids, huh? Hey, hope you are feeling ok after the surgery.Bkwormhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16230980046271675961noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8334700.post-41217549840520868782008-06-23T02:33:00.000+08:002008-06-23T02:33:00.000+08:00I fear too.. what would i be .. when chloe is older..?? would i be just like my mum..?? i hope not.. but i feel that .. it is coming.. because i'm already acting like her . .sometimes.. and i donch like it.mama bokwww.babybokchoi.blogsome.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8334700.post-8590134517833990312008-06-20T18:46:00.000+08:002008-06-20T18:46:00.000+08:00Hhhmm..a touching post indeed, i'll always pray for you and your family's happiness. Sometimes one should let them fall into the pothole, it can only make them stronger and appreciate life better. life's truth is indeed a bitter pill to swallow. well, those are my views of course ;)<BR/><BR/>Cheers!!! :Dhyelbainehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17715260157108296605noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8334700.post-68725901384137577672008-06-20T08:55:00.000+08:002008-06-20T08:55:00.000+08:00Every mother faces what you face. I guess when we are stay home mums, we expect more from our kids. when are kids dont behave as well as those of working mums - we think we have forgotten to do something or wonder where we have gone wrong.Guess you are right - we all need to pray, and lets all do it for one another - our kind of own support group, heh? Hang on, you are doing fine!!stay-at-home mumhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04977522411804549074noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8334700.post-69192833992169572312008-06-19T22:55:00.000+08:002008-06-19T22:55:00.000+08:00A man at the grocery store saw what a handful Ben was, said he missed it when his kids were little but not that much... and in almost the same breath, told me also that the worrying never stops even tho' his oldest is in college already. <BR/><BR/>Guess parent/motherhood just gets tougher, doesn't it? Hang in there, Bkworm, and try not to overworry, OK? God watches over us, our babies (no matter how big they've grown), and praying with you and for God's peace and wisdom to be yours and Papa Bkworm's.bphttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16539652855795741315noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8334700.post-42504346861013178092008-06-19T20:22:00.000+08:002008-06-19T20:22:00.000+08:00my kids are still young, so I cannot really relate to what you may be going through with a teenager and a young adult. Must be tough eh.. striking the balance between letting them go explore their own worlds and wanting to be part of what it is that will mould them into a useful and well-rounded individual. <BR/><BR/>Reading what you wrote will definitely make more sense to me in time to come. Right now, let me just enjoy these "innocent" years.. :)JoMelhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09470815691115555304noreply@blogger.com